Relationship Deal Breakers

I have critically analyzed some relationship deal breakers, for you to know when to flee.

1.       They threaten you or hit you. Even if they say they are sorry. Even if it’s just one time. Don’t get me wrong, forgiveness is a good thing, but in my opinion you can forgive without having to still be in the relationship.

2.       They code most of their gadgets and you don’t have the password. Smooth players know how to be hideous even without hoarding their gadgets, however not for long. If in your face he/she prevents your access to his/her gadgets and some places in his/her house. C’mon, the sign is there.

3.       He/She flirts with other people even in your presence. That sour feeling in the pit of your stomach isn't going to go away easily and it's going to cast a pall over the entire relationship.

4.       He/she tells a lie.  This is a tough one. You've just caught him/her in a relatively small lie. Maybe he/she couldn’t visit because he/she was ill, but you later find that he/she went to hang out with friends. it's just one lie about something that really doesn't affect the grand scheme of your relationship -- it's nice to think that. Unfortunately, that's not the case. If she's willing to lie on matters of such minor importance, she's probably going to lie to save face when the question is more important. Lying, no matter the reason or the outcome, should always be a deal breaker for your relationship.

5.       He/she calls you stupid, slut, gigolo and those kinds of heavy abusive words. This shows his/her temper cannot be controlled. This is something you should put into consideration because a person that claims to love you should learn not to use those kinds on words on you.

6.       You have never met friends or family after months of courting. Haba! Are you a learner, my dear you are the side chick/guy if none of his/her friends and family has ever met you.