Am sure people are waiting for me to give them a step by step or listed way of what could make a relationship work.
Well am not going to. You want a relationship to work????
Define It: from the on set you both should define what you really want, state it as it is. Don't confuse the person involved and if you are getting confused at the beginning RUN.
Say what you like and what you don't like. some people will say 'that will only make them pretend' , that's not true because one cannot pretend for a long time, you will see the signs, you just choose
to ignore them.
Follow Your Guts: Except you know you are not smart. If you perceive the person is not a straight forward, or you notice things in the person that you don't like, approach the matter. However if the things you notice become much and the person repeats them, start wearing you canvas. As a lady do not approach matters all the time else you will become a nag (i have been there).
How Comfortable are you? how comfortable are you around the person, are you bothered all the time about how to please the person or be the person's ideal partner?. Get this, once in a while you should come up with ideas on how to please and make your partner happy. But when you are bothered all the time about the perfect outfit to wear, the perfect words to say, the perfect food to eat- my dear its not a relationship, its a job interview.
Now critically analyse these things i have said and i hope to get positive replies of how well it went, because i wrote this from not just experience but also investigations. *winks*
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