People often times annoy us, step on our toes or hurt our feelings and we have every reason to be angry or sad, However taking extremely rash measures is not the way to go.
Before you take a rash decision sit down and remember all the other right things they have done. Bad experiences hurt but do not forget the good experiences too.
1. Take a paper
2. Divide into into two with a vertical line
3. List all the things they have done wrong on the first side
4. List all the things they did right on the other side
5. Is the wrong experience something you feel they are genuinely sorry for and would not repeat
6.Which one outweighs the other? Make your decision based on that
7. Please note however that if this same wrong has been repeated a lot of times , then you might go ahead with your decision , again depending on the gravity
1 comment:
Abegi, some people don't deserve to be forgiven jhoor
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